Scared1982 on "BB passive monitors and OCD"

Please can someone give me advice?
I am making myself sick with worry! I can’t sleep and have lost nearly a stone in 2 weeks!
On the 10th July my husband and I went to a travel lodge, I did check the bed and all seemed fine! Well it wasn’t! Late at night I looked at the bed again and saw two bed bugs on the side of the bed and two were crawling around on the bed! Red so they must have fed on us! Although neither I nor my husband had any bites appear. We changed rooms and when we got back we took the suitecase to the dump as we had bagged all our clothes in a black bin liner. I washed all the clothes we took on a 60 wash (TWICE) but I am sick with worry I missed something, my hairdryer or straighteners! I might have missed something! And they might have been hiding in them
I DID find an adult BB in my travel case which I bagged up so that didn’t get out.
The hotel are sending out a pest control I believe they use but I am convinced they will miss something especially as its early days! It will be 17 days when they come out
Then yesterday there was bug on the car door! (Inside) my husband said it wasn’t flat enough to be a BB but I am now scared our car is infected. We didn’t use our car to go to the travel lodge but I am scared when he took back the hire car and then got into his he may have transferred one! As the car wasn’t taken back until the follow day!
I have also seen 3 whitish bugs on our wood floor in the kitchen diner! Again my husband said it’s not flat enough to be a BB
I have brought the BB passive monitor and interceptors; I fitted them on the 14th July so it’s been 11 days and no signs. I have had two blood smears on the sheet, only tiny, it’s wasn’t BB poo I think, as wasn’t very dark/black in colour. One smear was on the edge on the bed sheet were I wasn’t sleeping
I think I am heading for a breakdown! I suffer from general Anxiety disorder and OCD! I know this is extreme but i can’t handle this. I spend all day at woek googling BB and going over and over asking my husband things!!